I remember when i was kid, you had a favorite singer or dancer or actor because you loved their talent or songs. But today it seems as though we care less about how talented a person is and are so much more focused on their personal endeavors. I posed the question about women for two reasons 1. I am a woman and find myself engaging in these celebrity conversations with other women. 2. I rarely hear men talking about celebrity's personal lives.
This couple right here Jay-z and Beyonce, my favorite recording artists, i basically grew up listening to their music and for that i respect and love their contribution to the Hip hop & pop community. But what i do not care about is, their marriage, how they raise their child, what their political and or religious views are!
The sad truth is people are bullies, and it's easy to talk about and squander time away talking people who clearly have reached far more success than most. Why aren't we engaging i conversations about the newest political moves? Community activism or the newest we've read? Instead we're worrying about who is sleeping with who and why someone is divorcing whoever.
Everyone is judge mental it's apart of our human makeup but, I'd rather spend my time judging things that are relevant to me my family and my future success.
I just want more women to move forward to become positive role models instead of pointing fingers at a celebrity that isn't contributing to our communities, not that it's their responsibility. Bottom line is, live your real life, get off of the social media, judgmental bandwagon and really live.
I vow to no longer have serious or joking conversations about celebrities because i have real topics that i want to discuss and they don't include the life and times of the celebrity obsessed culture we love in.
Tell me what's the last book you read?
Enjoy your day folks!!! Thanks for reading!!!
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